Thursday, January 14, 2010

This Semester's Schedule

Monday through Thursday this is what we do:

6:15AM Mommy wake up and shower
6:45AM Coffee and quiet time
7:30AM Girls' quiet time
7:45AM Breakfast and chore charts
8:30AM School
10:15AM Snack and nap for EG
10:30AM School
12:30AM Lunch
1:00AM Free time/Run Errands
4:00PM EG nap/rest time
(5:00-7:30 Mondays and Wednesday gymnastics)
5:30PM EG wakes up
6ish Dinner
7:30ish Bath time
8ish Free read time (or watch sports ;)
8:30ish Everyone in bed
9:30ish Lights out for big girls
10:30ish Mommy's bedtime

Friday is a relaxed school day of math and maybe a field trip. Saturday we get to sleep late and the kids can watch a little TV in the morning or play their video games. Sunday is up early and get ready for church.

Monday we start all over again . . .

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

My Girls



Last night the girls and I watched the basketball game. The boys were in bed! They were so cute. When the score would get close they would hide under the blankets and then yell "Did they score?" One player was up at the line for a couple of freethrows. Nature Girl asked "Is that Kitchen?" She knows the players! Little Mama would chant and cheer. We watch sports together a lot. But I thought last night was especially amusing because it was just girls!


(Maids Costumes)

Then, this morning, around 6:14AM I here pitter patter in the kitchen. A minute later my alarm went off. Little Mama came in and said "Can you stay in your room?" I said sure. I was just getting up to take a shower. To say the least I was very curious. A minute later both girls came in. They explained to me that they wanted to make my coffee and breakfast but every thing was out of their reach and they weren't real sure how to make coffee!! I was floored!!!! I gave them great big hugs and told them how appreciative I was! But, if they wanted to go back to bed, I would wake them at 7:30 and then they could make breakfast and I would help when they needed it. They both broke out in big grins and happily went back to bed.

At 7:30, when I woke them for their quiet time, I found them both in the top bunk. Like two peas in a pod . . .

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Service Project Number Three

There was much talk over the weekend (actually this whole past week) about homelessness in our area. A bunch of the families on my homeschool loop have even found a temporary home for a couple of ladies and helped them with money, possessions, doctor appointments and jobs etc.

There are hundreds of homeless in our area. And this past weekend it was going to be well below freezing at night. Saturday's paper mentioned how churches up north open up to allow the homeless to stay the night. A light bulb went on in my head. We have a huge church facility that could easily house quite a few homeless for a night or two. Sunday morning I mentioned it to a friend just as a passing thought.

Then, the preacher, during his sermon mentioned how the physical building of a church really belongs to those who are seeking, those who are lost. By the time I got home, I had a whole plan arranged in my head for opening up our church to the homeless. I ran my thoughts and ideas through hubby and a good friend of mine (and her husband who happens to be a deacon.)

By yesterday morning I was making a few preliminary phone calls to the Red Cross and the Salvation Army. We have a large facility but a relatively poor church so I knew we would need help with security, food and other resources. By 8:30AM I was ready to call a pastor and give him my proposal.

The pastor I talked with thought I had a good idea and he had even thought of something like it over the weekend. I forwarded him all the info I had gathered and said that we would be available for whatever he needed. He asked if we would be able to sit up at the church last night and I said "sure." Although the kids and I would not be able to stay all night. And then I left the rest in his hands.

We took a few minutes during school to talk about the homeless. And what that exactly means. We discussed, just a little bit, what I was doing and why I felt I needed to do it. We talked about the fact that the homeless are probably just the kind of people that Jesus ministered to. And if we are to grow more like Jesus every day then we should make an effort to minister to them as well.

After I had called the pastor, hubby found an article on the local news website that said a couple of other shelters had been opened the day before and a lot more beds had become available. The front page of the newspaper had a story about homeless shelters opening with the aid of the Red Cross etc. About an hour later I was sent an email by my pastor saying that after speaking with a couple of local aid agencies that it wasn't necessary at the time to open up the church.

I am so relieved the problem had been addressed. And I am thankful that I stepped out in faith. I am thankful for a pastor who was willing to listen. And I am thankful for a church that was willing to step out in faith.

It didn't turn out like I thought it would :) But, it was an important lesson for me to learn to be available to His calling. And, now I know that when the issue comes up again, we as a church body are willing and a little bit more prepared then we were last week . . .

Monday, January 11, 2010

Sundays

Sundays, after church, sometimes seem a little out of whack around here. It seems like, when we get home from worshipping the Lord with great music and excellent teaching, there should be a peace that stirs the heart, a peace that surrounds the house.

But, it seems to me that Sundays are not always so peaceful around here. The holiness doesn't make it home from church. I know much of the problem lies with me most of the time. I just expect, because it is Sunday and we just spent the last 2 1/2 hours learning about God and worshipping Him, that when we get home everyone will be on their best behavior. Including me. No sinning allowed on Sundays ;)

BUT, that doesn't usually happen. My expectations are always so vastly different from what really happens ;) Every one is hungry and maybe a little tired. We are in church clothes which are not always the most comfortable - pretty dresses, dress pants that can't get dirty etc., etc. etc. The baby has missed a nap. The house is usually cluttered because we left so early. We are a little off our routine.

But, I have also decided, that Satan comes to visit us for about 30 seconds on Sundays (other days too but that is a different blog post ;) I don't believe Satan can be everywhere at once so he doesn't spend a whole lot of time here on Sundays because he has so many other houses to visit, who have made it a priority to go to church. I decided yesterday, that part of the problem (not all of the "problem") is that on Sundays Satan works extra hard to frustrate those who truly want to follow Christ.

I don't like to give Satan too much credit. A lot of the "problems" I have being a Christian come from just my plain old disobedience to God. But, I do think Satan works a little overtime on Sundays . . .

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Memory Lane

Daddy brought home pictures last night from his last two trips to his hunting ground in the Frozen Tundra. There were only about a dozen but boy did they bring back memories for me. He hunts every year at my uncle's place where my brother and I used to visit about 30+ years ago.

As the kids and I were looking at them again this morning, I told them how it was one of my favorite places to go as a child. There were hundreds of acres to explore. Always all kinds of animals, domestic and other wise.

When we first started visiting my uncle's on the weekends, there was no running water and no electricity. And we didn't care! There was NEVER any T.V. and never a phone. All weekend long we would listen to Waylon and Willie (I have some songs on my iPod). We would fall asleep listen to Honky Tonk Heroes and various other blues artists (in part where my love of all kind of music comes from). When we were inside during the day we would play 21 and War.

But most the time my brother and I would play outside. Have picnics on the hillside watching for deer. Play in the hayloft of the big barn while dozens of cows would be feeding down below. We would see lynx footprints in the snow. And watch fish swim down the little creek that the bridge to the house crossed over. In the winter the little creek would freeze over.

And, if we were really lucky, on Saturday night it would snow really hard and it would be impossible for us to leave Sunday to go back home. The drive way was at least a mile long and up hill to get out! Sometimes when we would arrive late on a Friday, the gate would be locked and we would have to walk the length of the "drive way" to the house surrounded by cows.

There was a small mountain which we named Mount Uncle. My dad either embroidered it or cross-stiched it on teh back of a denum shirt.

On Saturday afternoons sometimes we would go into town (of about 500 I think) and go to the bar. My brother and I would play the pinball machine over and over again.

One year my dad took his Rambler down there and used it to "round up" one of the horses. They hit a ditch in one of the pastures, dropped the transmition. I am pretty sure that was the end of the Rambler.

We spent Halloween there one year. My uncle took a flashlight and would go to the windows and shine the light up in his mouth while peering in the window. Oooo, scary!

There were the greatest maps hanging on the kitchen wall. Like the kind you would see in a classroom. I loved those maps and honestly, when the kids and I do geography now, occassionaly I think about them. I think that inspired my love of geography! I will have to check with daddy to see if they are still there.

Their was the blue room, which my brother and I slept in.

There was always a huge fire outside and the adults would hang around it until the wee hours of the morning.

We were never allowed sugar. I learned to love GrapeNuts cereal with honey.

One time we bought some live ducks from a neighbor and killed them, defeathered them and had them for dinner.

There was a wood burning furnace, so in the mornings it was always very chilly.

During hunting seasons, when my brother and I played outside (just around the house) we had to wear orange.

We would find old decaying barns with cow bones all around them.

The last time I was there, Little Mama was 18 mos and Nature Girl was 3 1/2. It was during hunting season and the guys that were there were some of the same guys that were there 30 years ago during hunting season. The kids and I stayed in a hotel for lots of different reasons. Our plan is to go next year. But who knows. That is many months away.

As the kids and I were looking at the few pictures and I was noticing some changes, I told them some of my fondest childhood memories are from that place. I have many more memories from there and maybe some day I will share them. If I can figure out how to scan pictures, I might add them later too . . .

Friday, January 8, 2010

What to Do, What to Do, Part Two

During the week Little Mama and I had talked about the commitment to being on a gymnastics' team. A friend of mine told me gymnastics "is your life" when competing. So, Little Mama and I talked about what all that meant for our life as a family. We talked about how our priorities had to be God and family. And that because of the time commitment to training and traveling and the activities of the other kids, there would not be a whole lot of time left for other interests. Or going as often to Grandma's or Wild Adventures.

But, I also wanted her to know that we supported the opportunity for her to at least check it out. To see how it goes. To see if it was doable. To give the whole thing a trial run. To see if she even liked it.

Well, last night at dinner, LM informed us she did not want to compete. She wanted to be in the class that they originally promoted her to. She just wanted to go to tumbling for fun right now. And be able to go to Grandma's and Wild Adventures. I know Little Mama's heart. She wanted everyone to be happy.

We talked a little bit more about it and I made sure that it was her decision not pursue competing. And she seemed OK with it all. I told her what an honor it was to even be chosen. I also assured her that maybe in a year or two, if she was still interested we could look into it again.

Sure, part of me wanted her to compete. I think more for me than for her. But, I can honestly say that when she made her decision, I was relived. One less thing to worry about . . .